Day 185 / Ava’s singing

I had one of those days at work where things just kept going from bad to worse. I seriously could not catch a break. Therefore, my mood only went from bad to worse.

I make every effort not to not bring work home with me. That includes my mood, but it was tough to shake off today.

Queue Ava’s singing. My Little Princess hardly has the voice of a Disney Princess. But she thinks she does. 🙂

I was driving her to gymnastics this evening when the song Take Me to Church by Hozier came on the radio. I wish I could have recorded Ava singing this song. She sang it with such heart and emotion even though she got 90% of the lyrics wrong. It was so dang cute. It made all the stress of the day melt away. I couldn’t help but giggle to myself and tell her how much I love her singing. Especially today, I’m so grateful for it.

Day 171 / Birthday Party Plans Finalized

If you’ve ever planned a child’s birthday party, then you know how stressful it can be. There’s searching for locations, getting invitations out, putting together party favors, ordering the cake, balloons, etc.

Ava’s birthday is a little over a month from Christmas. Planning for it gets pushed to the new year (now). So, of course, I’m always scrambling.

Today, however, I secured the location, the first big step. I feel like a small weight has been lifted. I know it’s small, but I’m so thankful that My Little Princess Ava’s party has been booked. We’re having it at one of those indoor trampoline places, and she’s ecstatic! The smile on her precious face when I told her where her party will be was priceless.

Now, on to the rest of the planning….

Day 161 / Three Christmases

With three sets of parents, we get to have Three Christmases every year. This can be somewhat overwhelming at times, but I’m grateful for each one every year.

This year, we started at Donovon’s mother and stepdad’s house just outside Austin. His sister Cortney and her kids were there, and his stepbrother, Ash. We do not get to see them very often, so it was nice to catch up with them. It was a short visit because we had to get on the road, but it was such a pleasant one. And I always look forward to the reading of ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas. It’s become a tradition that we play the gift exchange game with it, which I love.

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Next we set off to Houston to my parents’ house. Admittedly, I was feeling sad about this visit. I was not looking forward to Daddy not being there. It felt empty and the hole in my heart felt bigger. It turned out, however, to be such a wonderful Christmas. We all felt his presence as we spent this special time together. There was some pain in the air, but by the time we left to head to Donovon’s father and stepmom’s house, I was much more at peace – and I could feel that my mom, sister and brother were too. It was such a comfort.

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We spent the final round at Donovon’s parents’ house on another side of Houston. I was exhausted, but gained a second wind as we spent time with more family, ate delicious food, and played Trivia Crack. 🙂 I’m amazed at how fast my nieces and nephews on this side have grown, even though my kids have grown just as fast.

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We headed back to Austin after the final round. On the drive back today, I felt grateful for so much love and joy this Christmas season. Although it was tough in the beginning, by the time we finished our Three Christmases, I felt a lot less sad and much more happy. I smile thinking about our nine nieces and nephews, the generosity and thoughtfulness of our families in the gifts we received, and the pure joy on Ava’s face when she finally got her Elsa doll.

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It was a wonderful Christmas, indeed. And I felt my Daddy smiling with us the whole time.

Day 136 / Ava’s Gymnastics Class

Ava’s gymnastics class is every Tuesday at 6:00 PM. By that time of day, the last thing I want to do is sit through a 4-year-old gymnastics class, but when I’m there I really enjoy it.

The last several classes, Alexa has come with us to watch. She and I get to talk and catch up while Ava’s in class. We also watch Ava and her progress together. It’s a really cool bonding experience for us.

And Ava is loving gymnastics. It keeps her so focused. She really works at each skill and technique. And she loves to demonstrate a new skill for the class. It’s absolutely precious.

So, on Tuesdays nights, I’m grateful for Ava’s gymnastics class and all the tiny joys it brings.

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Day 134 / Painting Ava’s Room

I’ve been promising Ava that I would paint her room for weeks now…Really months if you count the first time I mentioned it. So this weekend was finally the weekend. If I didn’t do it now, with the holidays upon us, I realistically would not get to it until the new year.

So I’m thankful that I set out to paint Ava’s room and finished today. More than that, Ava helped me paint and I enjoyed her company as we painted together. She was actually a lot of help despite there being a bunch of paint that I now how to clean off the floors.

We had a great time together, and she loves her new room colors. We’re waiting on new curtains and a new lamp to be delivered, and her “new room” will be complete. I hope this weekend goes into her memory bank under “Good Times with Mommy”. I know that it’s definitely a memory I will hold dear forever.

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Day 126 / The Banter of My Girls

Listening to the banter of Alexa and Ava cracks me up and warms my heart.  Tonight they came with me to pick up dinner.  That’s when their banter is most precious – when we’re all in the car together.  Ava will say random things like, “You know what, Mommy? Alexa calls me ‘Dimps’.”  Alexa then bursts with laughter and a playful exchange ensues.

It’s so incredibly priceless.  I’m always tempted to interject and sometimes will, but typically I will sit back and listen with a huge smile across my face.  I’m so grateful for my girls’ banter.  It’s only going to be this cute for so long, so I savor every second of it.