The Grahams – Uncle Terry, Tita Sunny, Jennifer, and Kristina – are a family with whom my sister and I grew up. Our closest family friends, we did everything together – countless dinners, birthday parties, holidays, and vacations.  

Jennifer and Kristina went to same private school as Crestina and me.  And we were always together outside of school. We took ice skating lessons, sewing lessons, cooking lessons. With a sisterly bond, we danced, we played, we watched cartoons, and of course, like the best of sisters do, we fought. 🙂

I attribute much of what I learned in my childhood to Uncle Terry and Tita Sunny.  Inherent mentors, they imparted so much knowledge and wisdom that I still carry with me today. I’m thankful for their teachings, but mostly for their support and their love.

The Grahams were an extension of our family.   And unfotunately, for our family, it wasn’t all fun and games. There was tragedy too, and when my mother fell ill and later died, her death hit them just as hard. 

Yet, they were there for my sister, my dad, and me the whole time, doing their very best to comfort us and help fill the enormous void. And of course, again, 28 years later with Daddy’s passing, they are here for Crestina and me.

It was my Tita Sunny who delivered beautiful eulogies for both my parents as only she could.  She knew them both so well.  The connection ran deep, and it was felt as she honored each of them. 

My gratitude for The Grahams is insurmountable.  They mean more to me than they will every know.  Uncle Terry, Tita Sunny, Fer Fer, and Tinker – I love you all so very much.