Day 213 / Surprise Dinner with La Mia Famiglia

I found out yesterday that my Mom, brother, aunt, and cousin were all going to be in town this evening. So with today being my sister’s birthday, we were all pleasantly surprised to find that we could all be together to celebrate!

There was fourteen of us all together. And with four little princesses running around enjoying each other, the rest of us ate delicious Tex-Mex at Santa Rita and relished in conversation and each other’s company. It gives me such comfort to be surrounded by my family. And of course, I felt Daddy smiling down on us.

What a wonderful way to spend a random Tuesday evening. I’m so grateful for this surprise dinner with my family.

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Day 212 / Mother-Daughter Day with Ava

Ava’s school was closed and I had the day off work for President’s Day, so we got to spend the whole day together.

First, we took breakfast to her Daddy at work. Then we went to see Paddington and have lunch. I took her for her 5-year-old well check after that and as I suspected, she’s doing very well.

Later, we ran a couple errands and finally ended up at home to relax and cuddle on the couch. It was a great day, and I enjoyed my one-on-one time with her. I’m so thankful for a Mother-Daughter Day with My Little Princess.

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Day 209 / Recovery

I contracted what seems to be a small stomach bug that hit me in the middle of the night and I’ve spent all day trying to rest and recover.

I hate missing work, but I’m thankful for forcing myself to stay home. I’m feeling so much better for it this evening.

Day 208 / Girls Night

Tonight a couple of girlfriends from work and I met up for dinner before going to see Fifty Shaded of Grey together. We had all read the book series around the same time and had discussed the making of the movie for years. So, upon the release of the movie, naturally, we decided to all go together.

It was a fun night and although movie left us disappointed to say the least, the time together was filled with much needed giggles, drinks, and girl talk. I’m so thankful for such an enjoyable Girls Night.

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Day 207 / Some Peace

I’ve felt so out of sorts and anxious the past several weeks. I bury myself in work, personal obligations, movies, and books in a feeble attempt to distract myself. I tend to internalize my feelings until I find some peace. I tend to find it in church or in prayer.

Today, it was this scripture that gave me solace and I’m incredibly grateful for it:

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.

– Philippians 4:6 (NIV)

Day 206 / The Love of My Life

Admittedly, I had a difficult time feeling gratitude yesterday.  I was feeling stressed, and I’m missing My Daddy so much, and was therefore also feeling depressed.

I really just wanted to take my sadness and depression and wallow in it.  And I did just that.  I went to bed feeling bad that I couldn’t think of anything to be thankful for.  Yet also knowing that I would have to make up today for the lack of post yesterday.  I can’t allow myself to skip a day completely.

So this morning as I reflect on yesterday with fresher perspective, I remember how I felt of glimmer of gratitude last night – It was late and I was tired.  I was reading my Kindle while Donovon was watching a movie and building some sort of something out of Legos.  I looked over at him and thought God, I love this man and everything we are together.  I got up, climbed in his lap and hugged and kissed him.  I do this fairly often, so it wasn’t unusual, but in this particular instance it made me feel so much better to feel connected to him – the love of my life for over two decades.

Why I couldn’t bring myself to write about this last night, I’m not sure.  But in the morning light of a new day, it’s very clear to me that I’m so very grateful for still being married to the love of my life.

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Day 205 / Precious Father-Daughter Moment

Ava loves old school cartoons on the Boomerang channel. She watches them every night just before going to bed. If Donovon is in the living room, she’ll climb into his lap and they’ll watch together.

Tonight I snuck in a quick shot of Donovon kissing the top of Ava’s head while she was sitting on his lap watching her cartoons. It was so incredibly priceless. I’m thankful for capturing this candid, precious father-daughter moment.

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Day 204 / Spending Time with My Sibs

I had dinner with my sister and her family last night and again tonight. Tonight, however, my brother came into town and joined us. It was so nice to spend time with them.
While we were eating, I did something that reminded them of Daddy and we all giggled over it. I always feel him near when we’re all together. It’s comforting. And I’m so grateful for our time together.

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